From Sri Ramakrishna's saying:- 








This human mind is in five kinds of states.
1.Monkey state:-It will jump from one state to another quickly and reach the eternal.







2.Fish state:-It will move happily and roam around and settle in the eternal.








3.Bird state:-It will be in one state and jump into another state of the same stature.








4.Ant state:-It will crawl slowly and reach the goal.

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5.Snake state:-It will move like asnake and not ina straight line but in a zigzag way and finally reaches the eternal.

It is most important to earn the people  to your side to share your happiness and suffering than earning and saving the property for your offspring.

however much you are  intelligent and alert you cannot  escape from the cunning and selfish persons.They will give indirect pressure to get their things done.They will not ask you to do the things but create a situation to offer to do the work voluntarily.By becoming financially strong and getting the grace of GOD you can some what face and avoid this kind of situation.